Career Crossroads Newsletter
March, 2009
 

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Recently a client who's just landed a good position made a comment   that, quite frankly, startled me.   "I'm so glad to have my new job ... now I can quit all that networking I've been doing".  Yikes!  You can imagine my surprise. 

 I know many people wince at the notion of networking, especially you introverts! Yet, we can't be without this valuable resource.  Below are some tips to demonstrate how to network properly. 

As the first day of spring, why not make a commitment to cultivate your network.  Just like new seeds,  your network needs frequent watering and nurturing to survive and thrive.  If done consistently and properly, your efforts will pay off bountifully.     

 

Care and Feeding of Your Network

 
Did you know that according to a recent staffing firm survey more than one-third of workers say not asking people for help is the top networking mistake!  Ranked second was not asking for help when they need it (37%) followed by not keeping in touch with contacts (25%).  Many people say they are embarassed about asking for help or feel they can succeed without others' involvement.  Here are 5 ways to network properly .... 
 
  1.  Know your purpose.
You would think this sounds obvious, but many job seekers beat around the bush or only hint at needing help.  They waste their contact's time when they're unclear about what they want to do or how the contact might be helpful to them.  Think about who your targeted companies are and how your contact might help make connections to those employers through their network. 
 
 2.  Be prepared.   
Do your homework.  Review your questions ahead of time.  Are some easy to answer by your own basic research? years ago as a corporate sales manager, I was asked by a networker ... "tell me about what sales is like?"  Needless to say, she wasn't very impressive.  The more you know about your contacts' companies or industry, the more they will remember you. 
 
3.  Change your mindset.  
 
The term "networking" has lots of connotations - not all good. Consider what you're really trying to do, and that's to make connections and  build relationships. It's much easier to seek advice if you recognize this isn't a one-time meeting.  In actuality, successful networking really is a two-way street.   Offering your help either in your time or resources is a wonderful way to build relationships.  For instance, often people whom you'll see don't have time to keep up with all the news or information about their field or industry.  Look for a good article to send as a way of saying thank you for their time.  It will make a huge impression. 
 
4.  Respect your contact's time.  
When granted an opportunity to meet, be mindful of their time.  You probably want to set the stage by asking for no more than 15-20 minutes.  It's also a good idea to email them prior to your meeting to give them an itinerary of what questions you'd like to ask along with a short description of yourself.  That let's them know you're organized and conscientious. 
 
 
5.  Be attentive.   
When someone grants you their time, you'll be much more successful if you remember to listen!  Many times networkers are so anxious to impress their new contact, they talk their way right through to the end of the meeting.  People really respond when they know someone is attentive.  Also, when you write your thank you note for the meeting (yes, this is critical!), mention something that you learned or found valuable during your meeting.  A thank you note not only says lots about your professionalism but also allows you to keep the connection going.

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Susan,

 

Having been a stay-at-home mom for the past 15 years, I wasn't relishing the idea of getting back into the job market.  Your approach to helping me recognize that I do  have valuable , marketable skills was a big boost for me.  Learning how to actually connect with people to find opportunities instead of simply dumping my resume into job search engines and waiting for responses was the catalyst I needed to move forward. I'm very excited about my new prospects. 

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